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It’s honestly really creepy the way biphobic radfems fixate on the sex lives of bi women. 

They can’t just say “bi women are attracted to men” or “bi women date men.” It’s always about sex, it’s always about how gross it is that we fuck dudes, how nobody wants to kiss a girl that had a dick in her mouth last week, how gross our pussies are for having been in contact with a cock. How we’re dick-worshippers and cocksuckers and bisluts. It always, always comes down to having sex with men, and it’s always just assumed that any given bi woman frequently has sex with men. 

There’s a lot going on with this gross trend but I’m too tired to get into it, I just wanna say that it’s really, really skeevy to me how obsessed people are with bi women’s sex lives. 

And to clarify, if any given woman, bi or otherwise, wants to be sucking five dicks a day or whatever people think it is we do, you know what? There’s nothing actually wrong with that. What consenting adults choose to do behind closed doors is completely their own business and is not a statement on their morality. 

But it’s just this absolute obsession with the idea that all bi women are, in fact, sucking five dicks a day, and that it’s a bad thing, and the assumption that all bi women–by virtue of being bi–have consented to public discussion about that dicksucking. 

It’s like people think by identifying as bi, we’ve given up our right to privacy and dignity and choice, that our sex lives are now acceptable fodder for public debate, a political statement open for criticism, by whoever feels like chiming in, whenever they feel like it. 

It’s disgusting, it’s violating, it’s dehumanizing. It’s a stone’s throw away from the “sexually available to men” rape apologist bullshit, and I’m tired of it. 

And just so we’re clear, cause I didn’t mention it bc this was mostly a vent post, but like: it’s obviously grossly transmisogynistic as well, given the fact that “has a penis” does not inherently equate to “is a man” but like, these are radfems, what do you expect.