Society hates teenage girls and everything they enjoy.
I can’t even tell you how much this screwed with me as a teen. I spent a whole decade of my life trying to prove myself to people determined to see me negatively. If you’re a teen and you’re reading this just live your life. Like what you like and if someone tells you its dumb it’s because they’re an asshole. There’s nothing wrong with you.
Read what you want to read, eat and drink what you want to drink, wear what you want to wear and watch what you want to watch.
People are going to judge you if you fit the mould and if you don’t, including grown women who should really know better.
“you can’t do that because of my religious beliefs”
not okay
Morality is not subjective. If the Bible says x is wrong, x is wrong whether you are a Christian or not. You’re not exempt from the truth because you don’t believe it.
Except if you’re not a Christian you don’t believe that the bible is truth so….
Yeah and if you’re colorblind you don’t think the sky is blue.
The sky is blue whether you believe it or not. The Bible is true whether you believe it or not.
The sky is actually black. You specifically perceive it as blue and a colorblind person may perceive it as orange or grey. A mantis shrimp sees it as colors that you cant even comprehend.
40: Do I ever get “good morning” or “good night ” texts?
41: Have I ever kissed the last person you texted?
42: When did I last hold hands?
43: How long does it take me to get ready in the morning?
44: Have I shaved your legs in the past three days?
45: Where am I right now?
46: If I were drunk & can’t stand, who’s taking care of me?
47: Do I like my music loud or at a reasonable level?
48: Do I live with my Mom and Dad?
49: Am I excited for anything?
50: Do I have someone of the opposite sex I can tell everything to?
51: How often do I wear a fake smile?
52: When was the last time I hugged someone?
53: What if the last person I kissed was kissing someone else right in front of me?
54: Is there anyone I trust even though I should not?
55: What is something I disliked about today?
56: If I could meet anyone on this earth, who would it be?
57: What do I think about most?
58: What’s my strangest talent?
59: Do I have any strange phobias?
60: Do I prefer to be behind the camera or in front of it?
61: What was the last lie I told?
62: Do I prefer talking on the phone or video chatting online?
63: Do I believe in ghosts? How about aliens?
64: Do I believe in magic?
65: Do I believe in luck?
66: What’s the weather like right now?
67: What was the last book I’ve read?
68: Do I like the smell of gasoline?
69: Do I have any nicknames?
70: What was the worst injury I’ve ever had?
71: Do I spend money or save it?
72: Can I touch my nose with a tongue?
73: Is there anything pink in 10 feet from me?
74: Favorite animal?
75: What was I doing last night at 12 AM?
76: What do I think is Satan’s last name is?
77: What’s a song that always makes me happy when I hear it?
78: How can you win my heart?
79: What would I want to be written on my tombstone?
80: What is my favorite word?
81: My top 5 blogs on tumblr
82: If the whole world were listening to me right now, what would I say?
83: Do I have any relatives in jail?
84: I accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good, and what’s even cooler is that they endow me with the super-power of my choice! What is that power?
85: What would be a question I’d be afraid to tell the truth on?
86: What is my current desktop picture?
87: Had sex?
88: Bought condoms?
89: Gotten pregnant?
90: Failed a class?
91: Kissed a boy?
92: Kissed a girl?
93: Have I ever kissed somebody in the rain?
94: Had job?
95: Left the house without my wallet?
96: Bullied someone on the internet?
97: Had sex in public?
98: Played on a sports team?
99: Smoked weed?
100: Did drugs?
101: Smoked cigarettes?
102: Drank alcohol?
103: Am I a vegetarian/vegan?
104: Been overweight?
105: Been underweight?
106: Been to a wedding?
107: Been on the computer for 5 hours straight?
108: Watched TV for 5 hours straight?
109: Been outside my home country?
110: Gotten my heart broken?
111: Been to a professional sports game?
112: Broken a bone?
113: Cut myself?
114: Been to prom?
115: Been in airplane?
116: Fly by helicopter?
117: What concerts have I been to?
118: Had a crush on someone of the same sex?
119: Learned another language?
120: Wore make up?
121: Lost my virginity before I was 18?
122: Had oral sex?
123: Dyed my hair?
124: Voted in a presidential election?
125: Rode in an ambulance?
126: Had a surgery?
127: Met someone famous?
128: Stalked someone on a social network?
129: Peed outside?
130: Been fishing?
131: Helped with charity?
132: Been rejected by a crush?
133: Broken a mirror?
134: What do I want for birthday?
ask me some questions guys ^U^ get to know me sooome :3
After a rough day, especially after an energy draining day at work, I like to take a moon bath. While it’s not actually outside or the moon literally glowing on me, the power is in the intention and visualization.
After a rough day, take a shower or bath. To have dim lighting, I keep the lights off and light some candles to give a soft glow in the bathroom. As I’m bathing, I visualize the water glowing with moonlight, and it’s cleansing all negative energies that have attached to me throughout the day. When I’m done and watch the water go down the drain, I am watching all of the bad energy leaving me for good, and I feel myself relaxed, calm, and rejuvenated.
Hey Coven, I know it’s been a minute since the last post, but I’m
starting to realize that when this happens you can expect something good to
coming. With that being said I hope you all like this spring/fashion week
inspired look
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When I saw this post on my dash, it kept disappearing every time the site finished loading. It had nothing to do with my blacklist extension, all evidence of this post on my dash vanished. I had to go to the blog of the person I’m reblogging it from DIRECTLY.
If you can see this post at all, even if it’s for a split second, try and like it and reblog it! Don’t let this post be hidden!
Literally show anyone outside of tumblr anti shit and they will fucking laugh at it and say they need to get a fucking life and get over such irrelevant crap.
I have a university lectures who have promoted concepts and taught things which discredit countless aspects of anti rhetoric and arguments.
If you really think ‘normal people’ are people who get so worked up over fictional crap which has such a minimal impact on day to day life and who think it’s ok to harass minors online over fictional content, then you have an unbelievably warped and fucked up idea of what the world is actually like.
I will never forget the time I had to explain to an anti that no one gives a shit about ships and whether or not they’re “problematic” out side tumblr. I told them that I’ve talked to my friends who didn’t know what killing stalkig was and they thought it was a cool concept and the anti just..couldn’t comprehend why no one cared. They ended up telling me that my friends secretly hate me and have some grudge against me and if that isn’t an abuse tactic then I don’t know what is.
There would be so many photos of these two just like, being casual cute during practices. Also, I’ve given up on trying to color this, so I threw some gradients on it and I’m done lol.
Straight men who always joke about hating their girlfriend are so fucking weird like imagine having a girlfriend and not treasuring and loving her every day smh grow up
“treasuring” and “loving” your girlfriend will result in her quickly leave you. Girls HATE guys who treat them like goddesses. They view it as pathetic and weak.
I hate it when people say shit like this like we get it you’re an
yall hurt him so bad he deleted his Manchild Manifesto
If it’s realistic or not. If it has the basic requirements that go into a spell, it should be fine. But if you see something like “spell to turn you into a vampire!!!” “teleportation spell!!!” “spell to make your eyes blue!!!”, then that’s BS.
It can be difficult at times to differ spells that are illegitimate to spells that are actually realistic, so if it’s too difficult to tell, just try the spell and see if it works.
My rule of thumb on this is three things:
Does it have realistic goals/expectations?
Is it dangerous/risky to do the spell? (is it asking unsafe things of you such as ingesting poisonous plants, burning toxic wood, ingesting things that shouldn’t be ingested ie essential oils, etc)
Does its correspondences add up?
If it checks out on all three of these then I say give it a go and see if it works for you. If any of these three sound iffy when compared to the spell, its not worth you time to do it, its either fake or very ill-researched.
Learning how to banish an entity is a very important skill to know in case you come across an entity that you want to send out of your space, and is a good way to protect yourself from spiritual entities that may come to try to do harm to you. There are many ways to go about banishing an entity, and in this post I will be going over a couple of them. I will also be giving tips that may be helpful. This is not an extensive guide by any means, but it’s definitely a stepping stone to understanding the processes that coincide with the banishment of entities.
Protecting yourself:
Protecting yourself is very important especially when you feel a presence that should not be in your space. Through the act of putting up shields you will help protect you’re so against them by putting up a wall of energy between the two of you, and by putting up wards anything that’s already on the inside out. This will give you time to come back to yourself, so that you can focus on what you should do next in order to deal with this entity. These shields, and wards do not have to be elaborate, and should be something you can call upon quickly when your safety is in question from spiritual forces. Practices like casting a circle, or the psychic bubble of light are very good for this, and will go through the process of keeping the entity at bay, while you can focus on what to do next. A simple way to put up a shield is to simply focus your energy around you, by visualizing it flowing off of your body much like mist, or light well thinking that you are protected, this will send your energy out from yourself forming a shield around your body through the power of your intention.
Learning more about the entity:
Learning more about the entity can teach you a lot about its reasons for wanting to hang around you in the first place, and will also help you decide if this entity is malevolent in any way towards you, or is just an entity that is naturally there, and not aggressive. Knowledge is power, and by you locking onto some of its key features such as its spiritual appearance, and it’s personality along with any other information you can gather from it, you will be able to interact with it more effectively. Knowing what you are dealing with before you deal with it can help the banishing process go more smoothly by allowing you to have the upper hand on it by knowing your enemy, or can help you realize that you don’t need your guard up around this entity, and can let it be, or ask it to leave.
Talking it out, and asking it to leave:
If the entity isn’t immediately aggressive you could always go through the process of talking to the entity to figure out why they are hanging around. They may just be passing through and not know that they are trespassing on your space, and you may be able to go through the simple process of asking them to leave. All you would really need to do in order to do this is to enter a meditative state, so that you would be able to hear, and recognize their communication with you, then you would just have to have a normal conversation with the entity. In this conversation you should figure out what their purpose for being in that space is, and see if you guys cannot come to a civil agreement. You may be able to ask it to leave, or it may just be allowed to hang around if it is not causing problems, but that’s all that really depends on the conversation that you guys have. If you cannot communicate with spiritual entities psychically you can always go through the process of using a divination process to divine their answers.
Demanding that it leaves:
If negotiations fail, and you have gone through the process of talking to it, or you feel that it will not listen to you, then it is time to demand it to leave. Through the power of your will, intention, and assertiveness you can force the entity out of your space by demanding out loud that at leaves. This intention will send your energy to force the entity out of your space. You can also go through the process of using there name in your demands in order to connect your will to it targeting it with your energy, if you do not have its name you can always go through the process of making one up for it. By first telling the entity that it’s name is this, and then using that name in your demands to tell it to leave. During this entire process you should be strong, and assertive, and should not waver under the entity in any regards in order not to give it power, and to put your intention through. If done correctly the entity should be forced from the space from your sheer energy, and willpower.
Forcing it out with energy:
You can also go through the process of using a more energetic method by visualizing your energy as fire, or light flowing to the entity blasting it with all that you have, by focusing on this vision in your mind’s eye, while projecting your energy forward will send it out in order to manifest your desire of sending the entity out of your space. This is a much better method if you feel that you are better with visualization, and energy work, and will allow you to enter a more trance-like state, while projecting your energy at the entity.
Forcing it out with items:
Certain items have banishing metaphysical properties that can be quite helpful in sending entities out of your space. These items can be natural such as herbs, and stones, or can be more man made things such as sigil, tailsman and amulets. By bringing these objects into the proximity of the entity with the intention of forcing them out you will begin to use them. This is a good way to go to the process of banishing the entity from your space with the incorporation of other objects. You could even go through the process of hard binding the entity to an object, then getting rid of the object with the entity bound to it. This will allow the entity to be bound to something, so that that something can be gotten rid of more easily.
Here is a list of some items that can help in the banishment of entities:
Holy water
War water
Holy books
Rosemary
Sage
Garlic
Dragon’s blood
Bloodstone
Black Salt
Salt
Smoky Quartz
Obsidian
Black pepper
Cloves
Jet
Sigil of banishment
Asking for help:
You can also go through the process of asking another practitioner for help in banishing the entity from your space, especially if you do not believe that you can handle it yourself. If you do not know any other practitioners you could always go through the process of asking a deity, or deities, or your spirit guides, or other higher power to banish the entity for you, or at least help you in the process of banishing the entity. This can help you out greatly, especially if you are not used to banishing entities, and want some extra help.
Other methods you could try for banishing entities:
Drawing the earth banishment pentagram in the air.
lesser banishing ritual of the pentagram
Gnostic pentagram ritual
Violet Flame
Sweeping to the east with a broom while having the intention that the entity leaves in your head.
Cleansing the area:
After the entity is all good in banished it is a good idea to go through the process of cleansing the area where they were at. This will relieve that space from their energies, and will get rid of any negative feelings, or residual energies that the entity had left there. This can be simply done through any cleansing method such as burning herbs, placing crystals in the space , clap cleansing, or any other cleansing method that you are aware of.
The credit card system shut down at our hotel. It hasn’t worked for over 10 hours, that is a huge problem because now we can’t check out or check in people. Sort of the main thing hotels do…
where’s that video of the naked crackhead literally running the speed of a moving car and I use the term literally literally he was deadass keeping up with the car
Hi! Humans don’t have an eye shine, so that’s not a person!
Demon horns being broken halos from when they were angels.
Demons willingly grow their own halos, but never complete the circle to symbolize their rebellion against heaven’s strict order.
In addition to the second one, angels are GIVEN their halos rather than earning them. Demons like Lucifer rebelled for freedom and individuality, thus demon horns all look different compared to an angel’s boring halo.
Horns are useful tools, but if you join them into a circle they become useless badges of authority.
And the thing about wearing a badge is that you become a symbol of someone else. You’re not you, you’re an extension of the entity whose authority you’re borrowing. You can’t be yourself until you ditch it
Here’s a visual representation of angels and demons.
I figure that as angels, their “horns” would glow when connected to become traditional halos. However, this blinds the angel with heavenly light, making the angel rely on God’s guidance.
Angels who break their halos become demons, and willingly grow their horns in obscure shapes so it won’t connect back into a halo. Because the halo no longer blinds them, demons can finally see but can no longer communicate with God for guidance – the light they once gave to heaven now belongs to them, hence demons being proficient with fire allowing them to see in the dark.
Extra notes on horns & halos:
Circular horns (Halos) are smooth and easy for God to “grab” like a chain.
Jagged horns are sharp to the touch and can pierce God.
favourite fruit: Mangos, pears, oranges and blackberry
favourite season: Autumn all the way
favourite flower: Bleeding Hearts, Carnations, Violets and Lavender
favourite colour: Maroon and Magenta
favourite scent: Salty Sea Air, Fresh Mountain Air, Apple Cinnamon Candles, Cedar
favourite animal: Cats though honestly I love most animals
coffee, tea or hot cocoa: Um, all three! Just depends on my mood
average sleep hours: 2-3 due to Anxiety Induced Insomnia though about once or twice a week I get around 6 hours
dog or cat person: Both though I side with cats a bit more
favourite fictional character: lol if I wrote any of them here there’d be antis all over the place yelling at me
number of blankets: one (two in the winter)
dream trip: (whoops missed this part!) Trip through asia honestly
blog created: I honestly don’t remember, years ago
number of followers: Just over 9k >->
random facts: Only fruit I do not like is blueberries, I have no sense of natural direction so without google maps I get so lost, I love old retro games like for DOS and the Genesis, I love doing colored line art, I once set a potroast on fire in a slowcooker
I tag honestly any one who wants to do it! A lot of people follow me and I would love to get to know you guys
I love how yokai range from “You smiled at me a little bit so now I will kill you with my razor-sharp hair.” to “Hey man, heard you were feeling down on yourself again so I thought I’d drop by and do a funny little dance.”
This is legit. My husband, sitting across the room, looks over and says, “IS THAT SOMEONE SHOWING HOW TO CONVERT ENGLISH TO TENGWAR? BECAUSE THAT’S THE WAY!”
Believe this man. He owns atlases of Middle Earth, the complete history of Midle Earth (leatherbound), and has read the books at least 150 times. Also: speaks elvish.
Yes.
For future reference. 🙂
So I was never the only one who learned this in my schooltime instead of French or Spanish? Such a relief, indeed! People like you make life worth living. *o*
Vogue Italia December 2015. Photographer: Tim Walker Featuring models Anna Cleveland, Christina Carey, Erin O’Connor and Jamie Bochert. Styled by Jacob K; Makeup by Val Garland; hair by Julien D’ys
Alright. I’ve seen enough of this bullshittery. Kinda tired of every radfem saying “YOU’RE INTO BDSM? STOP BEING ABUSED! YOU’RE BRAINWASHED BY THE PATRIARCHY!” So, in the light of @tooiconic‘s current struggle, I’m making a post regarding what BDSM actually is versus what the lot of you seem to think it is.
What does BDSM stand for?
Great question! It stands for: Bondage, domination/submission, and sadism/masochism. Bondage is the enjoyment of being tied up. Domination is the act of enjoying playing a dominant role, and submission is the opposite. Sadism is sexual pleasure in hurting others, and masochism is the sexual pleasure derived from being hurt.
Fun fact! Yes, both sadism and masochism are diagnosable according to the DSM. However, like most other -philias in the DSM, they can’t necessarily be “diagnosed.” A very important distinction here is that sadism and masochism are only diagnosable if 1) the person experiences discomfort due to their interests or 2) there is an extreme danger to a person’s health/life (such as in extreme cases of sadism that turn extremely violent or masochism in which the person begins performing self-harm tendencies for sexual pleasure).
In most cases, sadism and masochism do not reach dangerous levels. A sadist could be someone who simply gets off at the idea of spanking and nothing more than that. A masochist could enjoy the spanking and nothing more.
Google BDSM and look around, and you’ll see the same information I’m about to give you.
That all being said, let’s get into the myths.
Myth #1: “Isn’t it just 50 Shades of Grey? I’ve seen the movie, it looks unhealthy!”
That’s because it is. 50SoG is not an accurate representation of what the BDSM community looks like. Even without the BDSM aspect, the relationship is the definition of abusive. The BDSM aspect has nothing to do with this. It was written by an author who has, obviously, never done any research on the BDSM community.
Myth #2: “How could girls like being hit and slapped? It’s painful! It’s abuse!”
First of all, girls aren’t the only ones who are submissive. There are plenty of submissive males (and if you start pulling out some, “Well, if they’re submissive, they’re obviously transwomen! They’re women brainwashed by the patriarchy!” I’m going to beat your ass, and not in a way you’ll enjoy).
Second of all, yes. It can be painful. That’s the point. Did you know that dopamine, the “pleasure” chemical released in the brain that causes us to feel good, is also released as a result of pain? It’s one of the reasons people who get shot sometimes don’t even notice at first – the sudden release of dopamine is almost used to “cover up” the pain. So yes. There are people who can actually derive sexual pleasure from being slapped or spanked.
Could it be abusive? Yes. Just like any other relationship, the possibility of abuse is always there. But if it’s true BDSM, it’s done with consent and only with consent.
Myth #3: “There’s no way someone could consent to something like this!”
Wrong! Actually, in most BDSM cases, people sign a contract. That’s right; people sit down and talk about the things they are and are not okay with, what lines cannot be crossed and what lines they may be willing to cross, and then they write up an official contract. Both parties sign it and keep it in the event something goes wrong. The contract is always around for references.
Now, this isn’t always the case. Some couple can “accidentally” step into the BDSM community. They might start off with some bondage, maybe some light spanking. You can be into these things and not be a part of the “official” BDSM community.
So no, there’s always consent in a truly healthy BDSM relationship.
Myth #4: “But there’s cases where it’s not! And then it’s rape!”
Nope. That’s why safe words exist. Every BDSM couple has a safe word – a word that says, “no, not right now, stop” and the other partner is required, at that point, to stop all advances, even if they are in the middle of the deed. This action is usually in place until the other person gives the go-ahead and says it’s okay again.
This isn’t to say it’s impossible for it to turn into rape. Like any other relationship, it could. But it’s not because of the BDSM that it becomes rape. Rape =/= BDSM =/= abuse.
Hell, safe words/actions are actually SUPER helpful in other non-sexual cases. My boyfriend and I have our own safe action in the case either of us are uncomfortable but don’t want to say anything out loud for whatever reason (we’re in public or embarrassed. We’re not sexually active for a variety of personal reasons). We’re both very conscious of it and if one of us gives the signal, whatever the other person is doing is immediately stopped. It could also be used if we’re in a conversation with others to signal that we’re getting uneasy and want to leave the conversation. Just give the sign and the other person will help get them away to take a breather.
Myth #5: “You’re not in control! Someone else is controlling the submissive!”
Wrong again. The submissive party is actually in more control than the dominant one. They have a safe word that they are allowed to use at any time to cease all sexual activity. If that ain’t ultimate control, I don’t know what is.
BDSM is all about trust. Some people get into it solely for that reason – both parties have to have explicit trust in each other to perform their actions. The dom must trust that the sub will tell them when to stop, and the sub must trust that the dom will affectionately take care of them and not cross the established boundaries.
This is also why aftercare exists. After a session of BDSM (be it sexual or otherwise), the dom typically takes care of the sub. This can involve applying lotion to sensitive skin, massages, soft blankets, pillows, movies, cuddling, anything to help the submissive recover from the session. It is not an optional part of BDSM. Hell, I think everyone should do this after sex, BDSM or not.
Myth #6: “You’re just brainwashed by the patriarchy!”
I repeat. Men can be subs too, and women can be doms (they’re usually called a dominatrix). If the chemical release in the brain is what you consider brainwashing, then so be it, I’m brainwashed. But brainwashing implies changing a way of thinking and has nothing to do with the release of chemicals in the brain.
If my submissive ass is “brainwashed” so be it.
TL;DR: Stop. BSDM is not inherently abusive. Also, another person’s/couple’s sex life is absolutely none of your business and you don’t get to dictate it. You can’t say you want people to be free to be who they are and then try to control what they can and cannot do in their sex life. If it’s not endangering you or them, it’s not a problem.
Here’s a casual reminder that the repeal of Net Neutrality officially goes into affect on April 23rd. We still have time to do something, we only need ONE more vote from the Senate to restore Net Neutrality, so please keep calling your representatives and put pressure on them to vote against the FCC’s repeal
(a decoy acts as a “substitute” for you, which the curse will be redirected to instead of harming you; the decoy can then be cleansed or destroyed to remove the curse from it; sometimes you don’t get a choice and the decoy gets destroyed, and you have to make a new one if you still desire its protection)
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