Willows List of Love Spells

This is my current list of love spells from tumblr as well as from my own digital grimoires. I will expand this as I write and update more!

Apple Cider Love Bringing Spell

A very easy potion for welcoming love into your life. This love can be self love, family love, romantic, etc. 

You Will Need:

  • Apples or Apple Cores (fresh)
  • Water (Moon Water is recommended; I used half tap half moon)
  • Cinnamon
  • Sugar
  • Large pot with lid
  • Strainer of some kind
  • Jar with a lid
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Steps:

  1. Take your apples and peel off the skin or if you are using cores left over from apples you used for something else just make sure they are fresh. If you are using full apples cut them in half or fourths.
  2. Place apples/cores into your pot of water. Turn your stove to medium-low and cover pot. Let it simmer for 20 minutes.
  3. Lift lid carefully to avoid being burned by steam and add your sugar and cinnamon. Depending on the amount you are making the amounts will vary but I made about 2 jars full myself and added 2 tablespoons of sugar and 1 of cinnamon.
  4. Cover again and leave to boil.
  5. Occasionally check on your brew and stir it clockwise. If you are comfortable you may speak to it each time you stir of what sort of love you wish it to bring into your home. After stirring always recover.
  6. Once apples and cores are soft turn off burner and leave it to sit for 10 minutes to cool a bit.
  7. Carefully, using your strainer, pour it into the containers you wish to store it in. If you are not going to drink it all at once be sure to store it in the fridge. you may add sugar or honey to taste if you wish it to be sweeter.
  8. Sit and enjoy your cup of hot cider and focus on how it warms your core and like a light attracting a moth, it will begin to attract love into your life.

To Dream of Romance Spell

A spell to bring on dreams about one’s love and help enlighten them on their love life and romantic divination. 

You will Need: 

  • Rose Quartz
  • Rose Petals
  • Bay Leaf
  • Pink or Red Marker/Pen
  • Sachet (preferably red or pink)

Preparation:

Before using this spell take a nice bath to cleanse yourself and drink some rose tea or rose water.

Steps:

  • In your sachet place your piece of rose quartz and rose petals. 
  • On your bay leaf draw a heart using your marker/pen
  • “Tonight, I seek to dream of romance. Give me enlightenment on the love in my life.”
  • Kiss bay leaf and place it into sachet, tie it shut tightly.
  • Place beneath your pillow and go to bed

Suggestion: keep your dream journal nearby to write down whatever you dreamed about. Write every detail you can remember and every object. Then begin deciphering and analyzing what the dream could mean. Take notes.

Eye Catching Glamour Spell

A spell to catch the attention of that special someone. 

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You Will Need:

💝 Pink Eye Shadow
💝 Black Eyeliner (and brush if needed)
💝 Mascara
💝 Rose Quartz
💝 White Eye Glitter 
💝 Rose Water
💝 Serpentine, garnet, rhodonite and/or sapphire
💝 Mirror
💝 Empress Tarot Card (or printed out image of one)

Steps:

💝 Set up your space. Place your Empress Tarot Card near you where you can view it easily, place your gemstone(s) before you and close though not in your way. Have your make up in reach and keep a bowl/cup of rose water to your right. Be sure you are in front of a mirror or have a mirror set up in front of you.

💝 Do your face make up as you would normally though leaving your eyes for last. While doing so feel the energies of the crystals and tarot card

💝 Peer into the mirror and start with your eyeliner. Apply it from inner corner outwards and leaving a small tail/wing (style of which is up to you though thin and long is recommended). Do bottom lid from inner corner and out as well. While doing this imagine how you are lining your eyes, drawing attention to them, how your eyeliner will pull in the eyes of the one you wish to catch the eye of. Visualize how they will draw in someone.

💝 Apply your pink eye shadow as you desire though as doing so focus on how the eye shadow is glowing with temptation and allure, like a light in the darkness it will demand attention to look at it

💝 Begin applying your mascara, stare into your own eyes as you do so, imagine them glowing and rings pulsing in them, tempting someone to peer into them. Visualize this strongly

💝 Take your eye glitter and lightly dab it about your eye lid, this is for the beauty element. How they enchant your eyes like glittering gems. Focus on the desire of wanting to appear beautiful for the person when you catch their eye

💝 Finish the spell by taking your dominate pointer finger and dipping into your rose water and lightly dabbing it under your eyes. Imagine this making the intense glow of your eyes pink and warm. Keep the image of your glowing beautiful eyes in your mind as you begin your day.

Siren’s Lipstick Spell

A spell to make one’s words more desirable to listen to and to capture the attention of listeners. Helps them hold onto your every word and especially good for flirting.

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You Will Need:

  • Red Lipstick
  • A Mirror
  • Sugar
  • (Optional) Rose Quartz to place before you

Steps:

  1. Wash your face and do your  make up as you normally you would. 
  2. “My words are as sweet as sugar, they attract and lure like a song” 
  3. Take your sugar and place it onto your tongue and close your mouth. Let it dissolve away, as it does think about how you want your words to affect others.
  4. “I will captivate.” Say this three times looking into the mirror
  5. Take your red lipstick and paint your lips with it. Hum during this part a melody that you associate with beauty.
  6. Rub your lips together and do a ‘mwah!’ to the mirror. “May my song begin!” And close the spell as you see fit such as blowing a kiss or winking at the mirror. 

Other Notes: this spell can be enhanced by pairing it with perfumes that attract love and represent beauty such as rose perfume. 

Charm (Pokemon Inspired Spell)

A spell to improve your charms and flirting skills.

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You Will Need:

♡ Pink Candle

♡ Rose Petals (preferably pink or red)

♡ White Sugar

♡ Water in a bowl

Steps:

♡ Light your candle

♡ In your bowl of water mix in the sugar (not too much) and rose petals, stir it clockwise using your dominant hand’s pointer finger

♡ “Words sweet as sugar, Face as lovely as a rose, bring me the charms I seek.” Repeat as necessary

♡ take a handful of water and wash your face with it. Dab it dry then continue your usual morning routine

(if too much sugar was used and your face feels sticky your may use a damp towel to dab at it)

Mend the Heart Spell

A spell to start healing emotionally after rejection.

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You Will Need:

💝 Rose Petals
💝 Warm Water
💝 A bowl
💝 2 White Candles
💝 Rose Quartz
💝 1 bag of Chamomile Tea
💝 Red Fabric
💝 Needle
💝 White Thread
💝Scissors

Preparation:

From your fabric cut out a heart and cut it down the middle so you have two halves. Thread your needle before beginning spell (just makes it easier).

Steps:

💝 Place your rose petals at the bottom of your bowl then add your rose quartz on top

💝 Carefully fill bowl with warm water then add your chamomile tea. Leave it near you to steep. 

💝 Light both candles one to your left and one to your right in front of you. Let them burn during the rest of the spell.

💝 “My heart was broken, but it will heal, it will mend, it will seal.” While saying this take your two pieces of heart in either hand and place them down in front of you pressed together

💝 Take needle and thread and begin sewing it up the middle, repairing it. “It will heal, I will heal” repeat this mentally or verbally as you sew up the heart. 

💝 Tie off the thread once done and cut it if needed so you have a mended heart. Move the bowl between the two candles before you. 

💝 “I will be okay” and place your mended heart into the water and let it soak there over night. Blow out your candles but still leave them to either side of bowl for the night.

💝 Come morning take out your heart and place it in a window to dry (you may place it on a plate or paper towel to prevent it from getting things wet). After removing your rose quartz from the bowl, pour it down the drain or toilet. Imagine this action is pouring out the pain you felt from the rejecting.

💝 Once your heart has dried place it beneath your pillow. Keep it there until you feel you have finally gotten over the rejection then burn it to release the last of your pain.

“Kiss the Girl” Glamour Spell (Disney Inspired Spell)

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A spell to encourage the person you like to kiss you (under their consent). Wonderful for dates~

You will Need:

  • Lip Gloss or lipstick (preferably red or a vibrant pink)
  • Rose Incense
  • Pink paper
  • Red Marker or Pen
  • Rose Water or Rose Quartz Gem Elixir
  • Mirror (preferably on the wall)

Steps:

  1. Set up your area in front of the mirror you will be working with. Light your rose incense. Let it burn during the entirety of the spell.
  2. Do your make up as you would normally though leave your lips for last.
  3. Take your lip gloss or lipstick and hold it up and view it in the mirror. “Tonight will be the night, for me to meet your lips.” Uncap/open your lipstick/lip gloss and apply it to your lips. While doing this visualize drawing a heart on your lips in pink/red energy and it entering your lips and leaves them glowing, beckoning someone to partake.
  4. “Tonight, I will be kissed by (name of date/person of desire).” On the paper write the person’s name. Kiss the paper to ensure you leave a kiss mark on the paper, imagine it glowing and fading into the name.
  5. If needed touch up your lipstick again but be sure to still be visualizing them glowing in a beckoning manner
  6. Place the piece of paper into a bowl of rose water/rose quartz water and leave it there for the duration of the date. 
  7. Before leaving wink at yourself in the mirror and blow a small kiss at it to close the spell and boost yourself with a bit more confidence. Also be sure your incense is out before you leave.

Note: this is to encourage a kiss, not force someone to. Please, don’t forcibly kiss anyone, that is not okay. This spell is to help set the mood and boost the likely hood of you both sharing a happy kiss.

Couple’s Bath Spell

A bath spell to be done with your lover to increase lust and sexual energies between you.

You Will Need:

  • ½ cup of milk
  • 2 drops Rose Essential Oil
  • 2 drops vanilla extract
  • Rose Petals
  • Rosemary (may be loose or in a sachet)
  • Dried Raspberry Leaves (may be loose or in a sachet)
  • Rose Quartz
  • Garnet
  • Rhodonite
  • Red candles (you may add in white candles as well)
  • Apple Slices, red grapes or strawberries (if you can chocolate dip your fruit)

Steps:

  1. Draw your bath, while it is filling begin lighting your candles and line your tub with your crystals.
  2. Add to your bath your flower petals, herbs, milk, vanilla and oil
  3. Carefully get into the tub together facing one another if you can. 
  4. Each take a piece of fruit and offer it to the other. After exchanging fruit continue your bath as you choose. Though it is important to feel the energies from the fruit, the candles, the bath and the crystals filling the room and combining with your own energies. Feel how your energy connects to that of your lover’s. Visualize them combining and heated like a flame.
  5. Once done with your bath drain it and carefully step out. Be sure to blow out any candles still burning. It is best to let yourselves air dry.

other note: thought it would be a good time to post this now that it is nearly valentine’s day. have fun everyone.

Heart Stamp (Pokemon Inspired)

A spell to strengthen the passion and love between you and a consenting lover.

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You Will Need:

💘 A heart stamp (if you don’t have one a marker will be fine)
💘 Red ink (or red marker)
💘 Rose Water
💘 Rosemary
💘 Red Candle

Steps:

💘 Light your red candle and put near both you and your partner but out of the way.

💘 sprinkle rosemary into your bowl or cup of rose water and together mix it with your fingers, don’t worry about it being perfect or on beat

💘 Then take the others hand and one at a time on their non-dominant hand rub your dampened fingers clockwise on the back of their hand. 

💘 Blow on the others hand until it is dry

💘 Take your stamp and dip it in the ink (or use a marker to scribble on red ink to it) and one at a time stamp the person’s hand where the rose water had been applied with the stamp. “I stamp my heart on your sleeve” (if you have no stamp, you may draw a heart using the marker instead)

💘 End spell by blowing out the red candle together

Passion of a Rose Spell (Tuxedo Mask Inspired)

A spell between two consenting lovers to increase the passion between them. 

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You Will Need:

🌹 A Red Rose (fake will suffice)
🌹 2 Pieces of Rose Quartz
🌹 1 Red Candle

Steps:

🌹 cleanse your space and cleanse yourselves, set up an area where you and your lover can sit comfortably across from each other and space between you for your candle and other supplies. Make sure you both can comfortably reach each other’s dominate hands and at a good kissing distance, without having to lean over the candle (please place your candle to the side! I don’t want anyone burning themselves)

🌹 Once set up in your non-dominate hands, each of you hold a piece of rose quartz in it through the entirety of the spell. Place your rose between you both.

🌹 Light your red candle, again make sure during this spell you won’t have to lean over it or that you may knock it over with an elbow. Practice proper fire safety please. If you are on the floor put some wax paper under your candle to keep it from dripping onto the floor 

🌹 Once the candle is lit, with your dominate hand, press your palm to the palm of your lover and lock fingers, look into each others eyes and one at a time speak the following: “I, (insert name), wish to express my passion for you (lover’s name), so I present my love to you with this rose, and my fiery passion for you with this candle.” The first person who says this picks up the rose upon the line mentioning the rose and holds it up between you both. When the second person says the line they reach over and hold onto the rose with the first person so that both of you should be holding the rose together by the end.

🌹 Once finishing these lines hold the rose up at about lip level give or take (depending on height distance) and say together in unison as best as you can. “And I call upon the flame of passion to strengthen between us, so that it burns brighter than before. I ask this rose, to to fuel the fire.” And lean forward together and both kiss the rose between you two gently

🌹 “May this fire continue to burn.” Then kiss each other to end the spell.

Note: If you can you may choose to burn the rose at the end of the spell in a safe place, but if you cannot you can place it in a window to dry all the same. Or do whatever you wish with it. If using a fake rose you may keep it near your bed or anywhere else to keep its influence close.

Long Distance Friendship/Relationship Spell

A spell to help maintain a long distance friendship or relationship between consenting people.

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You Will Need:

💕 Aventurine (friendship, bonds)
💕 Aquamarine (ease communication)
💕 Chrysocolla (communication, connections)
💕  Ametrine (improve communication)
💕 Clear Quartz (power up spell)
💕 Salt (protection, purifying, honesty)
💕 Basil (friendships)
💕 Rose Buds (or petals) (close friendships, love, relationships)
💕 2 Blue Candles or tealights (communication, trust)
💕 Your Cellphone

Steps:

💕 On your cellphone open the contact to the person or the chat you communicate with them through, place it on the floor or a table. To the right and left of it place your candles and light them.

💕 In a small bowl or container place your herbs and place it above your phone

💕 In a circle around your phone and the bowl of herbs place your crystals. If they are point crystals have them pointing at your phone.

💕 Using your salt make a small circle around your phone.

💕 Hover your hands over your phone and close your eyes, feel the energies of your candles, herbs and crystals radiating from them, how they pass through your body and your phone. Focus your own energy in your hands and imagine it emit in gentle waves down into your phone as well.

💕 “No distance can keep us apart, I connect to you and you connect to me, over mountains and seas we will still be in touch, we shall remain together for communication is key.” Repeat the last line (bold) as many times as you feel is necessary.

💕 Finish spell by blowing out your candles and letting the smoke trail off imagining it traveling far off to where the other is. 

Notes: If both you and the other person do this spell it will be more powerful but it is not necessary. Also, this is to help you keep communication, you still have to put effort into keeping the communication going for a successful LDR. If you are missing one or two of the crystals that is fine, just try to have as many of each as you can. 

Parabatai Spell (Shadowhunters Inspired)

A spell to forge a bond with another consenting person to always be connected.

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You Will Need:

  • Blue Candles
  • Red Candles
  • Two Long Red Ribbons
  • Marker
  • Friendship Rune from Shadowhunters
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Steps:

  1. Light your red and blue candles
  2. On your right wrists, tie the ribbon around it leaving a long tail
  3. together tie the long tails of your ribbons together
  4. On the back of each of your right hands have the other draw the symbol
  5. Once symbols are drawn, hold each other’s hand with the palms pressed together and close your eyes
  6. “Together, we wish to stay, no matter the distance between. Together our friendship shall forever last, and nothing will break us apart.”
  7. Repeat this three times together.
  8. Let go of each other’s hands and press the back of your hands together so the symbols press together
  9. “I tie myself to you, and you to me, so we can always be connected.”
  10. You may then untie your ribbons then untie them from your wrists, hand the other the ribbon you wore and keep that ribbon with you or somewhere safe.

“Powder Snow” Spell Jar (Pokemon Inspired)

A spell jar to remove one’s own romantic feelings for an ex or a toxic lover.

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You Will Need:

❅ Jar or bottle with lid
❅ White Glitter
❅ Salt
❅ Dried White Rose Petals
❅ Ground Charcoal (artist)
❅ Garnet Chips
❅ Clear Quartz
❅ White Piece of Paper and Pen

Steps:

❅ On your piece of paper write down all of the reasons why you wish to remove your romantic feelings towards the other person. Write down the pain they have caused you and your wishes to be set free. Be sure to write this person’s name on the paper too. Set to the side

❅ In a bowl mix your salt, dried rose petals, glitter and charcoal (small amount). Stir counter-clockwise to banish these feelings for this person, visualize them freezing up into ice crystals and blowing away and out of your life.

❅ Carefully pour mixture into your jar and place your garnet chips and clear quartz on top

❅ Tear up your paper from the first step into tiny shreds. Put all of your desire to rid yourself of these emotions as you rip and tear them

❅ Add the small torn pieces into your jar and close it and seal it as you see fit.

❅ Keep somewhere at room temperature and close to where you frequent. Whenever you feel these feelings rearing up again, hold the jar and take deep breaths focusing on your desires to banish them from you. Use the energy of the jar for this.

Note: to break spell unseal jar and dispose of contents (properly)

Power of the Heart Self-Love Spell (W.I.T.C.H. Inspired)

A spell to open yourself up to your own love and sense of self-worth.

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You Will Need:

💕 Jar or Glass container

💕 Rose Quartz

💕 Water

💕 A Necklace or Amulet

💕 Moonlight

Steps:

💕 Fill your glass container with water and place in your rose quartz. In a window or outside place your water over night, preferably during a full moon. (any moon will do if you’re in a pinch)

💕 Come morning collect your water and bring it to your work area

💕 Hold your necklace cupped in your hands. Whisper to it your desires to start loving yourself and building your self worth. Visualize it glowing as you whisper these words to it, a soft dim pink. Once you have finished your words kiss it gently putting more of your wishes to love yourself into it.

💕 Holding it by its chain/string with both hands via your pointer finger and thumb lower it slowly into the gem water below until the charm/stone/pendent is submerged fully

💕 Time for more intense visualization: focus on the bowl as it glows with a warm pink light that shines bright like a fire and pulses like a beating heart. See it fill the necklace and make the necklace’s glow more intense until the water is no longer glowing and the light is coming from the necklace, pulsing and beating.

💕 Lift the necklace from the water and gently dab dry then put it on. Feel as it lays against your chest how its energy pulses and beats, warm and close to your heart. Let it warm you. Wear it whenever you need to love yourself.

💕 To cleanse leave in the moonlight and to charge simply repeat spell process above.

Seashell Charm for Self Acceptance

A simple seashell charm to help the wielder with self image and self acceptance. It encourages self love and self care.

You Will Need:

🐚  A White Clam Shell
🐚   Pink Candle
🐚   Red or Pink Marker

Steps:

🐚   Light your pink candle near you and let it burn as you work on spell.

🐚   With your pink or red marker draw a heart inside the clam shell.

🐚   “Seashell, seashell, help me love me for me. Seashell, seashell, please listen to my plea.” Fill in the heart you drew while saying this.

🐚   Blow out your candle and drip the melted pink wax into the shell until the inside is filled with the pink wax and the heart is covered

🐚   Leave overnight in the moonlight or the window

🐚   Carry the shell around with you to help encourage yourself to accept who you are and love yourself for it

Sweet Self Love Bath Spell

A spell for when you need to bring some self love into your life and to encourage positive thoughts and emotions.

You will Need:

  • Ice cream scented bath bombs 
  • rose quartz
  • ¼th cup of milk
  • a bowl of your favorite ice cream, yogurt or other treat
  • your favorite incense or scented candles

Steps:

  1. Draw your bath so it is nice and warm to your liking. While it is filling pour in your milk
  2. Around the rim of your tub or near it place your rose quartz. If they are points be sure to point them at the tub. 
  3. Light your incense and/or candles and place them where they won’t damage anything and won’t be at risk of being tipped.
  4. drop in your bath bomb (I use bath and body works ice cream fizzy bomb) and step into the bath 
  5. Relax and focus on the sound of the water and smell of the bath and the incense/candle. Eat your treat as you relax, and let your worries and self doubts leave you. Focus on enjoying yourself. Stay in the bath as long as you desire.
  6. Once out of the bath blow out the candles (if needed) and follow up the bath with doing something you love to do.

Ice Queen Breath Spray (Totally Spies Inspired Spell)

A simple spell for freezing the emotions of another towards you (removing crushes). Use this spell when someone has unfortunately gotten rather uncomfortable feelings towards you and can’t take the hint that you are not interested. Best paired with a binding spell if needed.

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You will Need:

  • Wintermint breath spray
  • A poppet of your target
  • Container that seals
  • Freezer

Preparation:

Make yourself a poppet of your target. This can be done with any material you feel is best, I usually use paper or clothe poppets myself. On the poppet write the target’s name to help better focus this spell.

Steps:

  1. Take your poppet and say the target’s name three times out loud. “I have no interest in your pursuit and you will not cease. Now I give you the cold shoulder.” Place the poppet into the container.
  2. Say the target’s name 3x again, and spray it with the wintermint breath spray. “I freeze your feelings for me, I turn them to ice.”
  3. Seal the container and place it into the freezer. “Now I leave them in the cold.” Close the freezer and leave the container in there as long as needed.

To break spell once the person has left you along/moved on simply open the container and let it thaw out on the counter over night. Dispose of poppet as you see fit.

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(Note: All spells listed are from my tumblr themanicnami, they have been moved here by choice. All material has been written by me and researched by me. Thank you)

Spell to Strengthen a Romantic Relationship

crunchypagan:

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Supplies

  • Lavender
  • Cinnamon
  • Chili Pepper
  • Fire-safe jar or cup
  • Red Taper Candle
  • Lighter
  • Representation of your lover

Instructions

  • Mix the herbs together (in the glass) with your finger in a clockwise motion. Visualize their powers of love and strength.
  • Light the red candle.
  • Chant:

“Our love is ever strong

By distance short or long

We made homes in each other’s hearts

Souls tied together from the start” x

  • Burn the symbol of your lover (over the glass) and visualize all the good times you have together: the kisses, the sex, the laughter, etc.
  • Add the ashes and herbs to the sachet, and place it near your bed, or wherever you interact most with your lover.
  • Thank any spirits or Gods that may have helped you in the spell.
  • Let the candle burn down. When it is finished, the spell is activated.

~H

Valentine’s Witchery

heatherwitch:

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Witchy things for everyone on Valentine’s day, not just the hopeless romantics! (More related masterposts linked at the bottom!)

Correspondences:

  • Flowers: Roses, jasmine, lilacs, daisies, marigold, most flowers!
  • Spices and Herbs: Vanilla, lavender, chamomile, pepper, basil, cinnamon, bay leaves.
  • Crystals: Rose quartz, pearls, opal, citrine, jade, clear quartz. 
  • Incense: Amber, cherry, jasmine, rose, sandalwood, ylang-ylang [X]

Glamour:

Attracting Romance Spells:

Romance Tarot Spreads:

Anti-Romance Spells:

For the Brokenhearted: 

Self Love Spells:

Self Love Tarot Spreads:

These lovely masterposts:

💜 self-love witch bottle spell 💜

lunarvvitch:

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Hey sweet spirits! I made this witch bottle spell to help me be kinder to myself and not let others’ aggressions harm me.

Ingredients:

  • Sea salt
  • Rose petals
  • Lavender (I used lavender oil)
  • Clove buds
  • Basil
  • Rosemary
  • Allspice
  • Moon water
  • A small piece of yellow paper
  • A pen
  • A deep blue or violet candle
  • A medium glass bottle (I get mine in bulk from Amazon)
  • Clear quartz chips OR a piece of quartz

Instructions:

  1. This spell should be performed during a Full or First quarter moon.
  2. Light your candle. While the candle burns, draw a sigil on your yellow paper. I used “I WILL LOVE MYSELF” to make mine, but I unfortunately forgot to take a photo of the sigil before I popped it in the bottle!
  3. After slipping the sigil into the bottle, fill it with just a pinch each of the salt and herbs. Top it off with just a couple drops of moon water.
  4. If possible, throw some clear quartz chips in there. I didn’t have any, so I just charged it next to a larger piece of quartz.
  5. Use the candle wax to seal the bottle.
  6. Charge the bottle under the moon overnight and be sure to fetch it before the sun comes up.

I keep mine under my desk where I spend most of my time studying and working.